Introduction
Lady Khadijah Bint Khuwaylid stands as one of the most revered and influential figures in Islamic history. A woman of extraordinary character, wealth, and wisdom, she was not only the first wife of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him and his family) but also the first person to embrace Islam. Her unwavering faith, steadfast support, and selfless devotion to the Prophet during the early years of his mission earned her the honorable title “Umm al-Mu’minin” (Mother of the Believers).
However, the passing of Lady Khadijah marked a profound turning point in the life of the Prophet and the early Muslim community. Her death occurred during the Year of Sorrow (‘Ām al-Ḥuzn), a period of immense hardship that also saw the loss of the Prophet’s uncle and protector, Abu Talib. This dual tragedy left the Prophet bereft of two of his closest supporters, plunging him into a time of grief and vulnerability.
Studying the death of Lady Khadijah is not merely an exploration of a historical event; it is an opportunity to reflect on her enduring legacy and the lessons her life imparts. Her story exemplifies the virtues of faith, patience, resilience, and unconditional love—qualities that continue to inspire Muslims around the world. Through this exploration, we aim to honor her memory and deepen our understanding of her unparalleled role in shaping the foundation of Islam.
Her Family and Lineage
Lady Khadijah bint Khuwaylid belonged to the distinguished Quraysh tribe of Mecca. Her father, Khuwaylid ibn Asad ibn Abd al-Uzza ibn Qusayy[1], was a respected figure among the Quraysh, known for his leadership and influence. Her mother, Fatima bint Za’ida[2], came from a noble lineage as well. According to historical sources, Lady Khadijah was born approximately fifteen years before the Year of the Elephant (ʿĀm al-Fīl), which corresponds to around 555 CE. Her birth took place in Mecca[3], a city that was a major center of trade and religious significance at the time.
Her Noble Status and Virtues
Lady Khadijah was a distinguished, wealthy, and trustworthy woman of her time[4]. Prophet Muhammad (PBUHH) mentioned her among the four greatest women: Khadijah (a), Lady Fatimah (a), Maryam, and Asiya[5]. He also described her as one of the best[6] and the most perfect women[7]. She was honored with titles such as al-Tahira (the pure), al-Sidiqqa (the truthful), and the greatest woman of Quraysh[8]. Her kunyas included Umm Hind, Umm al-Zahra, and Umm al-Mu’minun[9].
Lady Khadijah (a) was the Prophet’s (s) most loyal companion and advisor, holding a special place in his heart. Even years after her passing, he remembered her with deep affection. She was known for her wisdom, fairness, and strong spiritual aspirations. Despite receiving marriage proposals from prominent Qurayshi men, she chose Muhammad (s) for the sake of eternal success. As the first believer in Islam, she accepted his prophethood and prayed alongside him.
Her Final Days
The death of Lady Khadijah Bint Khuwaylid occurred during one of the most challenging periods in the life of Prophet Muhammad (PBUHH), a time that would later be remembered as the “Year of Sorrow” (‘Ām al-Ḥuzn). The year 619 CE (the 10th year of prophethood) was particularly devastating for the Prophet. In quick succession, he lost two of his closest supporters: his uncle Abu Talib, who had been his protector and ally, and Lady Khadijah, who had been his confidante and partner[10]. The loss of Abu Talib left the Prophet without political protection in Mecca, while the death of Lady Khadijah deprived him of emotional solace and unwavering support.
Circumstances Surrounding Her Death
It is pertinent to mention that Lady Khadijah’s passing did not occur in isolation; it was part of a series of trials that tested the resilience of the Prophet and the early Muslim community. By the time of her death, the early Muslim community faced increasing hostility and persecution from the Quraysh tribe. The Prophet and his followers endured social boycotts, physical abuse, and economic sanctions. Lady Khadijah herself bore witness to these hardships, providing emotional and financial support to the persecuted Muslims while enduring the strain of societal pressure.
Her Death
While historical sources do not provide exhaustive details about the exact cause of Lady Khadijah’s death, several accounts offer insights into her final days. According to some historical sources, Lady Khadijah passed away in Ramadan 10 years after Bi’tha (May 619)[11] at approximately the age of 65 years.
Historical narratives suggest that she fell ill, likely due to the physical and emotional toll of the challenges faced by the Muslim community. Some scholars speculate that her illness may have been exacerbated by the stress of witnessing the persecution of her husband and fellow believers. Despite her declining health, Lady Khadijah remained steadfast in her faith and continued to support the Prophet until her final moments. Her unwavering devotion to Islam and her husband exemplified her character even in the face of death.
Place of Burial
Lady Khadijah passed away in Mecca, the city where she had spent much of her life and where she played a pivotal role in the early years of Islam. She was buried in Al-Hajun Cemetery[12], located on the outskirts of Mecca. This cemetery remains a revered site for Muslims, as it is the resting place of many companions and early believers. According to Islamic tradition, the Prophet himself participated in her funeral rites, underscoring the deep bond they shared.
Impact of Her Death
The death of Lady Khadijah Bint Khuwaylid had profound emotional, spiritual, and historical consequences, leaving an indelible mark on Prophet Muhammad (PBUHH) and the early Muslim community.
Emotional Impact on Prophet Muhammad: The Prophet (PBUHH) was deeply affected by her passing, as she had been his closest companion and confidante for 25 years. Historical accounts describe how he mourned her loss intensely, often remembering her with love and gratitude even years after her death[13]. He referred to her as “Khadijah, the truthful,” highlighting her unwavering faith and loyalty. Her absence left a void that no one else could fill.
Impact on the Muslim Community: Lady Khadijah had been a source of strength and stability for the early Muslim community[14]. Her financial support, wisdom, and moral courage were instrumental in sustaining the fledgling movement during its most vulnerable years. Her passing coincided with the loss of Abu Talib, leaving the Muslims without two key protectors and supporters in Mecca. This period ultimately led to the migration (Hijrah) to Medina, a pivotal event in Islamic history.
Spiritual Lessons and Reflection: Lady Khadijah’s life and death serve as a lesson in patience and reliance on Allah during times of loss. Her unwavering faith and the Prophet’s resilience in the face of her passing inspire Muslims to endure hardships with grace.
Her Legacy
Lady Khadijah Bint Khuwaylid’s legacy endures as a timeless example of faith, strength, and devotion, leaving an indelible mark on Islamic history and the lives of Muslims worldwide.
Role Model for Faith and Character: Lady Khadijah is celebrated as a paragon of virtue, embodying qualities such as integrity, compassion, and resilience. Her unwavering support for Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) during the early years of Islam serves as a model of steadfastness and loyalty. As the first person to embrace Islam[15], she demonstrated immense courage and conviction, inspiring countless believers to follow her example of faith.
Empowerment of Women in Islam: Lady Khadijah shattered societal norms of her time as a successful businesswoman and leader, proving that women can excel in both personal and professional spheres. Her independence and wisdom continue to inspire Muslim women to pursue education, leadership, and economic empowerment. She exemplified the ideal partnership in marriage, characterized by mutual respect and shared values, setting a standard for marital relationships in Islam.
Enduring Influence: Her contributions to Islam remain unparalleled, as she provided emotional, financial, and moral support during the religion’s formative years. Her sacrifices and dedication laid the foundation for the growth of the Muslim community. Lady Khadijah’s memory is honored through her title “Umm al-Mu’minin[16]” (Mother of the Believers), symbolizing her maternal role in nurturing the early Muslim community and her lasting spiritual influence. In essence, Lady Khadijah’s legacy transcends time, offering lessons in faith, resilience, and selflessness that continue to resonate with Muslims today.
Conclusion
The death of Lady Khadijah Bint Khuwaylid marked a profound turning point in the life of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him and his family) and the early Muslim community. Her passing during the Year of Sorrow (‘Ām al-Ḥuzn) left an irreplaceable void, as she had been a pillar of strength, faith, and unwavering support during the formative years of Islam. Lady Khadijah’s legacy endures through her unparalleled devotion to the Prophet, her role as the first believer, and her contributions to the establishment of Islam. Her life exemplifies the virtues of resilience, compassion, and selflessness, offering timeless lessons for Muslims worldwide. As “Umm al-Mu’minin” (Mother of the Believers), her memory continues to inspire generations, reminding believers of the profound impact of faith, sacrifice, and steadfastness in the face of adversity.
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