Holy Quran: woman is equal man 1

Holy Quran: woman is equal man 1

Status of women in Islam has often been a subject of controversy. Among many, the image of a Muslim woman is viewed as one under oppression and domination of males, confined within the boundaries of her home, not having the opportunity to express herself or take part in public life. Such misconceptions are due to the fact that non-Muslims are seldom presented with the Qur'anic directives concerning the rights and responsibilities of women and usually their perception of Islam is based on the traditions and cultural practices of certain individuals specific within a locality, which are then stereo-typed as legitimate Islamic practices. This grave situation results due to the fact that the Muslim world of nowadays has distanced itself from Allah's Book, and the majority of those who may identify themselves as Muslim, are themselves unaware of its contents, and instead blindly follow the doctrines of the sect in which they are born into, assuming them to be consistent with the Qur'an.

It should be understood that when we say something is Islamic, then what exactly is the authority for that matter? Is something Islamic, just because people who may apply the label of a Muslim on themselves are practicing it? Even a mere superficial study of the Qur'an makes it evident that the final authority for all matters of Islam lies with the Book of Allah. Whatever is confirmed by the Qur'an, is valid as Islamic practice, and what is refuted or resented by it, is not. Hence the following article presents what is that status that the Qur'an has given to women. The Qur'anic directives for this matter should be considered as the final authority, and opinions or actions of those who label themselves as Muslims or associate themselves with Islam should be judged in the light of the Holy Qur'an, and should not be accepted as 'Islamic' if they are refuted or resented by the Qur'an.

THE ORIGIN

The Qur’an declares that the male and the female are equal in status and utility as both have been created by Allah. Unlike the Bible, which states that Eve (woman) was created from Adam’s rib (See Genesis 2:4, 3:24), the Qur’an informs us that both the male as well as the female were created out of one single source material (4:1 & 6:98 & 7:189)

"O mankind! Be wary of your Lord who created you from a single soul, and created its mate from it, and…"(4:1)

"It is He who created you from a single soul"(6:98)

"It is He who created you from a single soul, and made from it its mate"(7:198)

Discarding the Biblical story where Eve is held responsible for Adam’s temptation and expulsion from Heaven (See Genesis 2:3), the Qur’an states that both Adam (man) as well as his pair (woman) were equally tempted by Satan, both of them tasted of the forbidden fruit, both of them were equally admonished for their forgetfulness, and both repented and their repentance was accepted by their Sustainer. This is stated in the following verses of Surah Al-Araaf:

" Then He said to Adam, ]" O Adam, dwell with your mate in paradise, and eat thereof whence you wish; but do not approach this tree, lest you should be among the wrongdoers- Then Satan tempted them, to expose to them what was hidden from them of their nakedness, and he said," Your Lord has only forbidden you from this tree lest you should become angels, or lest you become immortal- And he swore to them," I am indeed your well-wisher - Thus he brought about their fall by deception. So when they tasted of the tree, their nakedness became exposed to them, and they began to stitch over themselves with the leaves of paradise. Their Lord called out to them," Did I not forbid you from that tree, and tell you," Satan is indeed your manifest enemy? - They said," Our Lord, we have wronged ourselves! If You do not forgive us and have mercy upon us, we will surely be among the losers." (7:19-23)

Earlier in Surah Al-Baqara, it was also said that both man and woman, were tempted by Satan:

"Then Satan caused them to stumble from it, and he dislodged them from what they were in; and We said," Get down, being enemies of one another! On the earth shall be your abode and sustenance for a time."

 "(2:36)

Thus it is clear from the above that the Qur’an maintains that both men as well as women were created out of one source material (one soul) ‘A Single Self’, and both man and woman were equally responsible for their expulsion from the Garden. The Qur’an does not harmonize with the view that the first woman was created from a man’s rib or that she was the one who caused humankind to be expelled from Heaven.

WOMENS’ TREATMENT BY UNBELIEVERS

In a society which is governed by superstition, ignorance and self-interest of the elite, the female gender is oppressed to the fullest extreme and she is always considered as a lowly being in comparison to men. Her rights are usurped by the influential class and she seldom has the opportunity to voice her grievances. The Qur’an detests such a mentality which considers females to be of a lower worth than males, for we are clearly told that in the sight of God, every human child, regardless of race, gender, or social affiliation is equally honored and worthy of respect:

"Certainly We have honored the Children of Adam," (17:70)

The Qur’an informs us that in a society of unbelievers, the female gender is despised and a son is preferred over a daughter. In Surah Al-Nahl their mentality is identified:

"When one of them is brought the news of a female [newborn], his face becomes darkened and he chokes with suppressed agony- He hides from the people out of distress at the news he has been brought: shall he retain it in humiliation, or bury it in the ground! Look! Evil is the judgement that they make" (16:58-59)

In such a society, the female gender is not only despised, but she is also deprived of the nourishment that was to be meant equally for her as well as her male counterpart. The unbelievers are identified to restrict females from the sustenance that was meant for the consumption of both the genders, on the basis of self-made traditions:

"And they say," That which is in the bellies of these cattle is exclusively for our males and forbidden to our wives. But if it be still-born, they will all share it." Soon He will require them for their allegations. Indeed He is all-wise, all-knowing" (6:139)

Such is the treatment imparted by the unbelievers to the feminine gender. In any society, where males are preferred over females, where females are deprived of their essential nutrition, such should be identified as a society of disbelievers in the divine values, for Allah has informed us in His Book, that the birth of a male or a female is in accordance with His laws of nature and not something to raise discrimination against:

"To Allah belongs the kingdom of the heavens and the earth. He creates whatever He wishes; He gives females to whomever He wishes, and gives males to whomever He wishes - or He combines them males and females, and makes sterile whomever He wishes. Indeed He is all-knowing, all-powerful" (42:49-50)

A child is born not only of a father, but also of a mother, therefore it should not be subjected to any bias on account of its birth:

"O mankind! Indeed We created you from a male and a female, and made you nations and tribes that you may identify yourselves with one another. Indeed the noblest of you in the sight of Allah is the most God wary among you. Indeed Allah is all-knowing, all-aware" (49:13)

Now let us proceed to see what would be the status of women in a society which is governed by Quranic principles.

RIGHT TO ACQUIRE EDUCATION

The Qur’an has stated that the acquisition of education is compulsory for all the believers. About the messenger it is stated that he taught the Book of Allah to his audience, which included men as well as women:

" It is He who sent to the unlettered[ people ]an apostle from among themselves, to recite to them His signs, to purify them, and to teach them the Book and wisdom, and earlier they had indeed been in manifest error" (62:2)

In the acquisition of knowledge, women are also included, as the wives of the Prophet (PBUH) were commanded:

"And remember what is recited in your homes of the signs of Allah and wisdom. Indeed Allah is all-attentive, all-aware" (33:34)

Thus the Qur’an has stipulated that women should also be educated and trained to know the realities of life.

RIGHT OF EXPRESSION

The Qur’an informs us that women in a Qur’anic society not only have the right to express themselves freely but she is in such a position that she may even argue and hold discussions with the head of the community. The messenger of Allah (PBUH) who was not only the divine emissary to his people but also the first head of the Islamic state, gave so much freedom in society that the people, including women were in a position to argue with him. The Qur’an records this in the 58th Surah titled "Al-Mujadilah". We are informed:

"Allah has certainly heard the speech of her who pleads with you about her husband and complains to Allah. Allah hears the conversation between the two of you. Indeed Allah is all-hearing, all-seeing" (58:1)

Women are also to take an active part in public life. In Surah Al-Mumtahina we are informed of their public allegiance to the Prophet:

"O Prophet! If faithful women come to you, to take the oath of allegiance to you,[ pledging ]that they shall not ascribe any partners to Allah, that they shall not steal, nor commit adultery, nor kill their children, nor utter any slander that they may have intentionally fabricated, nor disobey you in what is right, then accept their allegiance, and plead for them to Allah for forgiveness. Indeed Allah is all-forgiving, all-merciful" (60:12).

Along with men, women were also included in these public discussions with the office bearers of the Islamic state:

"O you who have faith! When faithful women come to you as immigrants, test them. Allah knows best[ the state of ]their faith. Then, if you ascertain them to be faithful women, do not send them back to the faithless. They are not lawful for them, nor are they lawful for them. And give them what they have spent[ for them ]. There is no sin upon you in marrying them when you have given them their dowries. Do not hold on to[ conjugal ]ties with faithless women. Ask[ the infidels ]for what you have spent, and let the faithless ask for what they have spent. That is the judgment of Allah; He judges between you; and Allah is all-knowing, all-wise"(60:10).

RIGHT TO SELECT A LIFE PARTNER (HUSBAND)

For the subject of marriage, the Qur’an has provided detailed guidance. We are told that marriage is the name of a contract between consentient adults who are believers in the divine values. It is clarified that women cannot be forced to get married and thus they have the right to express their will. The following verse tells us:

"O you who have faith! It is not lawful for you to inherit women forcibly, and do not press them to take away part of what you have given them, unless they commit a gross indecency. Consort with them in an honorable manner; and should you dislike them, maybe you dislike something while Allah invests it with an abundant good"(4:19).

Thus both believing women as well as men have been given the right to have a say in their marriage. Also women cannot be married forcefully and men also have been given the right to marry women of their choice: (see 4:3)

Then again in (4:21), regarding marriage it is stated that women have taken a contract 'meesaq' from men;

"How could you take it back, when you have known each other, and they have taken from you a solemn covenant?"(4:21)

A contract or covenant ("meesaq" in Arabic) requires the free consent of both parties in agreeing to that contract.

An agreement in which a person is forced to do something against his/her will does not constitute a "meesaq". If the woman has been forced into getting married or the will of the man has been manipulated by coercion then such an agreement does not become a contract or "meesaq". Thus for a contract of marriage to come about, both parties the man as well as the woman have to use their free will in coming to terms and agreeing to live the rest of their lives with each other. If out of these two anyone is forced or does not have their free will involved then such would not constitute a "meesaq".

HUSBAND-WIFE RELATIONS

The main purpose of maintaining relations as a married couple is that love, compassion, and tranquility should develop between man and woman. In this way they live a life of harmony and become a source of solace to each other. The Qur’an says:

"And of His signs is that He created for you mates from your own selves that you may take comfort in them, and He ordained affection and mercy between you. There are indeed signs in that for a people who reflect"(30:21)

The Qur’an has used the Arabic word "Zawj" for the husband-wife pair. This is an Arabic word which means such a pair which is complimentary to each other, and with the absence of one of its halves the other gets incomplete. Therefore, the husband and wife should be as such that they provide fulfillment to each other's personality and become a source of nourishment for each other. Thus the husband-wife relationship is not that of a boss and his servant, but one of mutual companionship and comradeship.

To bring about such compatibility, it is essential that man and woman have a unified outlook of life and maintain a coordinated stance for various matters. Such a life, in which the life-partners are in harmony with each other, will definitely be a life of exhilaration, and situations where people of conflicting tastes, views and ideologies are bound together, may result in kindling the fires of discontentment. That is why the Qur’an has stated that believers should be paired with like-minded persons only, as otherwise if they selected spouses from the opposing camps, then that would cause discord. Thus we are reminded:

"Do not marry idolatresses (Polytheist women) until they embrace faith. A faithful slave girl is better than an idolatress, though she should impress you. And do not marry [your daughters] to idolaters until they embrace faith. A faithful slave is better than an idolater, though he should impress you. Those invite [others] to the Fire, but Allah invites to paradise and pardon, by His will, and He clarifies His signs for the people so that they may take admonition" (2:221)

The Qur’an has likened the husband and wife pair as "Garments" to each other, signifying the type of relations a Believing couple maintains:

"You are permitted, on the night of the fast, to go into your wives: they are a garment for you, and you are a garment for them" (2:187)

Thus as nothing comes between us and our garments, then such should be the outlook that believers are to maintain towards their spouses. A garment also protects us from the variation of climate and guards our shame, similarly a couple which considers the divine values as guidance for life, should protect each other from the harmful effects of society and guard each other's weaknesses. The Believers are instructed that they should treat their spouses with mercy and compassion and should not be harsh on them, even though something about their wives may seem displeasing to them:

"O you who have faith! It is not lawful for you to inherit women forcibly, and do not press them to take away part of what you have given them, unless they commit a gross indecency. Consort with them in an honorable manner; and should you dislike them, maybe you dislike something while Allah invests it with an abundant good" (4:19)

As seen women are equal to men in humanity and lots of rights even they gave directly allegiance to the Prophet based on Quran. So it is not right to say that Islam has put man above women and ignored women's rights.

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